OCD Southern California’s board members would like to thank everyone who attended our October 16th Awareness Week 2021 event! The event had a large and active audience, and we are grateful for everyone in the community who joined us. We have also had a lot of interest from those who were not able to attend, so we wanted to share with you the video recording of the event, as well as OCD resources that were discussed!
The recording of our OCD Awareness Week event, including the links shared in the chat (please note, we did not record the Q&A portion to allow privacy for those who asked the questions):
We hope that you find these resources helpful! Email us: info@ocdsocal.org with any additional questions. See you next year, during the second week of October, for OCD Awareness Week 2022!
[NOTE:]The following blog post comes from our guest contributor, Kim Quinlan, LMFT, who recently spoke at our OCD Awareness Week 2021 Event!:
Hello everyone,
If you suffer from obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), chances are you’re very not only familiar with feelings of anxiety, panic, shame, and uncertainty. You also experience the stigma associated with OCD, often making you feel unworthy of receiving the compassion and kindness you need and deserve.
In addition, chances are you are incredibly hard on yourself. After experiencing unwanted intrusive thoughts, feelings, sensations, images, and urges, you might find yourself engaging in harsh self-judgment, self-criticism, and self-punishment. While these behaviors are not your fault, they can actually hinder recovery and lead to additional mental health problems.
So, how can you break this destructive cycle and start living the life you want to live?
The answer is SELF-COMPASSION! Self-compassion is a powerful practice that involves you treating yourself the same way you would treat a loved one if they too were experiencing similar intrusive thoughts or struggling to not engage in compulsions. Self-compassion is being kind instead of judgmental when times are tough. Self-Compassion is the practice of cheering yourself on as you face your fears instead of berating yourself and saying words that only make you feel more hopeless.
Let’s take a closer look at this. Imagine that someone you love dearly came to you and said, “I have a disorder called OCD. It means I have intrusive, repetitive, unwanted thoughts, and I cannot make them stop. It is torture!” What might you say to them? Would you stop what you are doing to help them? How would your voice change? Would you speak softer or slower now that you know how much they are suffering? Would you reach out and touch them tenderly (if appropriate)? What form of support would you offer them?
Self-Compassion is saying and acting precisely this way, just this time saying and acting that way towards yourself. When you are struggling, you can choose to lean into your suffering and truly offer yourself warmth and kindness. In addition, when you are struggling, self-compassion can also include setting kind, compassionate limits with fear, reminding yourself that you no longer want to allow fear to make your choices for you anymore. These two important practices of self-compassion can be instrumental in OCD recovery.
Living with OCD can be extremely challenging, so adding self-compassion practices to your recovery can be life-changing. You are so much more than your disorder! And you deserve to be treated with the same respect and compassion.
If you are interested in learning more, I so excited to announce that I wrote a workbook that combines the practice of self-compassion with Exposure and Response Prevention (the gold-standard treatment for OCD). The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD can be your guide to supporting and caring for yourself as you face your fears and practice managing uncertainty, anxiety, and doubt.
Thank you,
Kim Quinlan, LMFT
To purchase “The Self-Compassion Workbook for OCD,” by Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT, please visit HER OFFICIAL AMAZON PAGE HERE.
In addition to our wonderful OCD Southern California board members, we are so excited to announce that Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT, will be joining our Saturday, October 16th, 10AM – 12 noon PST OCD Awareness Week 2021 event as a featured guest speaker!
Here is more information on Kim Quinlan, LMFT’s talk:
Talk title:“Learn how Self-Compassion can help supercharge your OCD Recovery!”
In this interactive presentation, you will learn why having a self-compassion is crucial for OCD recovery and how the practice of self-compassion can actually help with motivation and willingness to engage in exposure and response prevention. We will also cover the core concepts of self-compassion and some of the common roadblocks that people with OCD experience when it comes to practicing self-compassion!
Kim just recently released her book, “Self-Compassion for OCD Workbook,” a guide to incorporating self-compassion into OCD treatment! Kim will be discussing highlights from her new book, as well as giving an interactive presentation.
We look forward to seeing you all Saturday, October 16, 2021 at 10am!
If you, or someone you know, are interested in joining the event, please email:info@OCDSoCal.org to be on our mailing list. This is where we will be sending out the link for Saturday’s event!
The free, virtual event will last 2 hours starting at 10am PST and ending at 12 noon PST. The event is being held on Saturday, October 16th as part of OCD Awareness Week 2021! We hope to see you there. Email us at: info@ocdsocal.org. Those on our mailing list will receive the link for the event!
